
The crowning of the bride and groom is the culminating moment of the sacrament of marriage. It integrates the couple into the mystery of Christ's love for the Church. The use of wedding crowns is an ancient practice, predating Christianity. The current symbolism and usage of crowns in the Orthodox Christian wedding rite is full of biblical and theological meaning. The crowns are a visible sign of the Kingdom of God. They are outward symbols of the inherent dignity of humanity made in the image and according to the likeness of God. The crowns remind us that we are, in reality, "children of God, heirs of God, and coheirs with Christ." These crowns remind us that as God's children, born from "the water and spirit" (our baptism), we share in the "royal priesthood" of the Church, making us kings, priests, and prophets of creation. These crowns also carry a more somber biblical and theological meaning, as the Church's wedding hymns refer to them as crowns of martyrs, which means those who are "witnesses" to Christ. In this context, the couple's crowning implies their mutual and personal acceptance of the Gospel of Christ, with its message of picking up and bearing the cross of Christ in order to share His life eternally. As Christ was crowned "king' by the mob, and subsequently crucified for their sins and the sins of the whole world, so too the couple will be called to crucify all selfishness, and die to themselves for the sake of Christ and each other. They are to be witnesses, like all the martyrs throughout the centuries, to the life of Christ and to His victory over death in all their struggles. Their home should be, in the words of Saint John Chrysostom, the "little church." Finally, the crowns symbolized the promised hope of eternal life and glory offered to the couple by Christ as a divine and eternal reward given to those who "faithfully persevere unto the end." Our prayer for them is for the Lord our God to "crown them with glory. and honor."